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Real Family Talk Blog

When Intimacy Fades

Sexual intimacy isn’t the only measure of a healthy marriage, but its absence is a signal worth taki…

The Neuroscience of Forgiveness

Where Scripture meets science.

Single Parent Adoption

Exploring God’s design in nontraditional families.

Money Matters

Finding financial harmony in marriage.

Intentional Reflection

Building emotional intelligence through Scripture.

The Art of Biblical Conflict Resolution

A framework for healthy disagreement.

Creating Sacred Holiday Traditions

Shaping holiday traditions that put gratitude, giving, and God at the center of family life.

Generational Legacy

Teaching children about healthy relationships.

Empty Nest Evolution

Rediscovering your partnership after the kids leave.

The Language of Love

Improving family communication.

A Delicate Balance

Digital distractions and modern marriage.

Shared Stewardship

Developing financial intimacy in marriage.

Managing Unexpected Crisis

Trusting God when our security is shaken.

Welcoming Without Pressure

Managing in-law relationships with grace

Faith, Family, and Second Chances

Blending families successfully.

The Art of Growing Together

Balancing individual development and relational strength

New Year, New You

The beginning of a new year presents a compelling opportunity for wholistic life transformation. The…

Who Should I Marry?

Finding a compatible spouse who shares your values is a significant challenge, especially for those…

Married and Frustrated! Part 2

When two people meet and get along well together, they often say they’ve fallenin love. Actually, th…

We Have Teenagers, Please Help!

Parenting teenagers is one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences. It requires striking a…

Married and Frustrated! Part 1

Marriage is one of the most challenging relationships to manage, because it’s the closest relationsh…

Good Communication

Good communication is like the blood of relationships. Every facet of the living organism of your re…

Why Get Married at All? Part 2

In last month’s column we answered your question from a biblical perspective. In this month’s column…

Why Get Married at All? Part 1

As people of faith living in a world without moral boundaries or constraints, it is essential to ask…

Holidays With Adult Children

We appreciate your willingness to approach this holiday season differently than you have in the past…

The Energy of our Marriage

Thank you for the level of empathy you show for your wife in your question. At this time your relati…

Same-sex Attraction

To be sure, it is important to have a correct biblical view of who we are to avoid embracing a fault…

We do not see or hear from our son

What you have described is not all that unusual. Much of what you shared has to do with the rituals…

My Marriage Is Over

Anyone can change the habit of referencing their busyness in conversation by recognizing the habit e…

Improving Time Together

Anyone can change the habit of referencing their busyness in conversation by recognizing the habit e…

What to do After Graduation

Feeling a bit lost, lonely, left out, or falling behind are not unusual emotions after completing an…

When Marriage Is More Down Than Up

We’ve said this before, but it bears repeating: when couples are dating, opposites attract. But in m…

A Marriage That Goes the Distance

God’s intent from the beginning was for permanence and intimacy in marriage when he said in Gen 2:24…

Drawing the Line in the Sand

We encourage you to set sensible boundaries (rules) with your daughter and see to it that they are k…

Money Matters

The truth is, regardless of how much money a couple or family has, they almost always believe they n…

Feelings of Resentment

Resentment and bitterness are byproducts of unresolved conflict or feelings of hurt that persist bec…

Living Together Without Being Married

We believe God loves you and wants to save you and your partner regardless of what has happened or i…

Should I Say “Yes”?

We often share with dating couples—and married couples too—that there are no perfect couples because…

My Sons Want Tattoos!

I am a Christian single mom of two sons. One is 19 years old and the other 23. Recently they’ve been…

Too Much Bickering!

What you’ve described is very common among married couples. Most good marriages enjoy a decent level…

Unmet Expectations

Your story is one we’ve heard before from many disappointed marriage partners. Yet, many of them hav…

Keeping Our Homes Abuse-Free

Understanding domestic violence to keep homes free from abuse.

Ambiguous Loss

Emerging theories of grief, such as ambiguous loss, may help us understand what you’re currently exp…